Could I be pregnant?

I stopped B/C in February 08. Since then I have exremely irregular cycles, lasting between 36 and 70 days. Last week I have period symtoms like hot flashes, and cramps, extreme hunger. No period though. I have also taken 2 tests both BFN. I usually enjoy wine but now just the thought of it doesn't sound appealing. DH and I have been TTC since July and still nothing. I have read books, charted BBT, BBD 2x a week. Everything I could think of. I have no idea when I should test again. I'll be back later bald, beaucse I've pulled all my hair out.

I am usually very regular...28-30 days tops. I am on Day 34 and no sign of period except my stomach is a bit uncomfortable. I took an OTC pregnancy test yesterday and it was negative. Just curious if anyone else has had this same thing happen and turns out they WERE pregnant?

I HATE not knowing! That is the worst!!

DH and I haven't really been TTC, but we haven't really taken any precautions to avoid it either. We've just kind of decided to let it be what it will be...

Well, he did anyway...

Now every month I am stuck in this crazy 2-Week waiting period, going certifiably crazy!! Usually it is just me psyching myself out, but this month I have cause for concern.

LMP was November 17. I am on CD 41 when my typical cycle is 33 days +/- 2. The latest I have ever been was a 40-day cycle, but that was during an EXTREMELY stressful portion of my life. Lately stress has been mild to moderate. No biggie. Nothing that would cause a late AF.

About 3 DPO (approximate) I had a teeny tiny bit of pinkish blood in CM. Then again at CD 35. I've been having a sharp pain in my lower right pelvic area, and backaches/headaches galore! But nothing in my breasts, which is WIERD! Normally AF really gives me a run for my money there, starting about a week before she comes. And I've been feeling little queezy/nauseous moments, but they pass. I've just been chalking them up to Stomach flu season.

But when I put them all together, and add them with AF mysteriously disappearing, it's got my attention. I've taken 3 HPTs and all have been negative...

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!

I'm thinking that I'll give her another week and then I'm going to make an appt.

I am so worried i have been ttc for 4 months now i had a tubual reversal by one of the best doctors in the field in july of 08 we found out we were pregnant in early oct and misscarried shortly after it took about 6 weeks for everything to return to normal n e ways i believe i ovulated late this month but i am a day away from af and really hopeful im pregnant i have had 2 neg hpt but in my past preg i had 3 neg hpt before i had one turn up pos and it was 7 to 10 days after my actual period was due and my doc said i must have ovulated late.

Help! My period was due Dec. 18. It came Dec. 17 with a normal blood flow. But then, the following day, it quickly "tapered off" like it does towards the end of my period. I had a little spotting, but barely enough to mark my pad. That's it. So I had less than 36 hours of actual bleeding, then nothing. The big question is, am I pregnant? Or could this all be just stress?

So here I am, I will be officially 2 weeks late as of Christmas Eve. I took a HPT last week and it was negative. I have a 4 year old and its been so long, I don't remember how I felt. It was so easy the 1st time, we got pregnant on the first try. Now, here we are, 7 months later, still trying.

I don't want to get my hopes up. My body is probably playing tricks on me. Every time I go to the bathroom, I keep waiting for that telltale streak so I can stop being in this limbo. Hate to be negative, but I know that when I take the test on Wed, it's going to be -.