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Conception Frustrations II?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: teachjlk on Jan 9, 2011
Conception Frustrations II?

Is it normal to take a while to conceive?

My husband and I just started TTC. My period started Dec. 9th and I tested positive for ovulation on Christmas Dec. 25. About 5 days ago I started having very low cramping, being extremely thirsty which is abnormal for me, and weird cravings/not very hungry. Well yesterday I started spotting very dark and I began to think it could be implementation spotting. Well today I started my period heavy so I understand what you are going through...very frustrating when those periods come and your TTC!

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Posted by: KME on Jan 6, 2011
Conception Frustrations II?

TTC w/ PCOS... What can I do to make it happen??

I have PCOS and i'm trying to get pregnant. January 2010, my dr. told me that i had PCOS and that if i wanted to have a kid it would be extreamly hard for me. That i would have to take medication and be watched carefully. I'm only 20yrs. old and My husband and I have been TTC for 2 months now. I'm trying to do everything right.

I have a few friends that also have PCOS and they've gottin pregnant and are due soon. They told me that they didn't have to go get on medication to help. I'm wondering and hoping that i won't have to do medication.

For thoes of you that don't know what PCOS is, I'll explain it just a little. I have irregular periods. ("My Dr told me") If i'm not on bc i can go us to 8 or 9 months without a period. You must be thinkin that it sounds great... but your wrong. Because i don't have regular periods, my eggs don't drop, thus they stay in my overys and build up. Causing me great pain when i do wind up having a period.

For the past 4 days I haven't been feeling like my normal self. Normally my husband and I only eat once or twice a day. But this week i've been gettin up, eating a huge bowl of cereal, which i haven't done since i was a little kid. I'm always dying for something to drink. And I'm sleeping for 12 to 15 hrs a day. Two days ago my face started breaking out and my breast are somewhat tinder to the touch. I get irritated about everything. I'm thinkin that I might be pregnant??? On this site it says that my ov dates are January 05 - 09. I've read that sperm can live in your body for 2 or 3 days...

I want to be pregnant. I would love to bless my husband with a child of our own and starting a family with him. I go to bed praying that i will have to chance to go through the merical of child birth. I'm starting to think there is no hope for me to ever do that for my husband. Please if anyone has PCOS and is TTC, or has PCOS and is Pregnant, some words of advice would be great.

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Posted by: smalley on Dec 29, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

TTC after Tubal Reversal

It's been a year since my tubal reversal.. we've tried everything.. still no BFP.. Anyone else TTC after TR?

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Posted by: hoping42nd on Dec 27, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

When do you stop TTC?

We have an almost 9 year old son, and have been TTC #2 for 5 years and 1 month. I've taken clomid for 4 months and had to IUI's (were very painful). DH has low count.

It has gotten so hard lately, when do you stop TTC? I try not to think about it, but its hard not to. I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant, even when they weren't even trying to.

My wish is that one day, I can be truly happy when someone tells me that they are pregnant and not go into crying fits. I'm so tired of people telling me that when we stop TTC that is when we will get our BFP...I want to yell, "HELLO 5 years later, you tell me what I'm doing wrong!"

Sorry, I just got the news that one of my friends is pregnant with her third. This is the second person in the last few days that I've found out about.

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Posted by: jeanpebs on Dec 21, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

TTC is a disappointment some times.

My husband and I have been married a year he deployed for 6 of those 12 months and when he came home we were trying to conceive in June I took two test at two different times of day that came back pregnant only to go to the doctor and found out we werent. Now we had 6 months together and still trying but still no baby. He deploys again in August of next year and we want a pregnancy before he leaves. Now yes I am showing symptoms of pregnancy but honestly what if it was like in June and July and I am not really pregnant? I see everyday everyone one I know getting pregnant and having babies I want my own. When will it happen. Everyone is like "when are you going to have a baby, It will happen it just takes time, dont worry about it things will work out?" So when will all those people stop telling me the same old crap and understand that they have kids already they dont get it. Or How about the ones who have 2 or more children. NO offense but you already have children so why can you stop acting like you need a dozen more. I have some friends who have kids and they are like I want another one. And they are as bad as those who cant even have their first one. I would just like to have one or two and be happy with it. JUST SO FRUSTRATING!
And my cousin who had 5 kids was like I will be your surrogate mother like WTH thanks for rubbing it in my face. :'(

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Posted by: Brittany21 on Dec 17, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

TTC A 3RD TIME BUT NO LUCK!

Why am i having so much trouble getting pregnant a 3rd time?? IS there something wrong with me?

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