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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: 092592 on Jun 28, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

Young and Trying So Hard

My husband and I have been TTC for over a year now. I'm 26 and he is 25. We both have checked out to be healthy with our doctors. I just don't know why it's taking so long and we are both getting a little frustrated. We have already started to paint our spare room and put up wallpaper in hopes that on day soon we can bring home a bundle of joy to experience it.

My doctors says that Clomid would be the recommendation for me if nothing happens by Septemeber. Pray for us!

Overall Relate Rating: 12 Ratings

Posted by: ShirleyS on Jun 28, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

48 days late but EPT shows NOT Pregnant

I've been trying for almost 1 year now .. stopped birth control March 2006 and had to get my periods restarted ..

All was okay (regular 28 days cycles) but now a little out of wack (23 days average)

Now here is the dilema .. my last cycle was May 12 (4 days total = normal) but haven't had one since

I have taken 3 EPT tests and they came back NEGATIVE .. finally hounded doctor for a blood test prescription .. waiting for results

Total days late 48 .. anyone else in the same boat ??

Please help

Overall Relate Rating: 16 Ratings

Posted by: candi7 on Jun 27, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

Dont you just love it??

AHHHHHHHHH.. good now I feel better, I feel like screaming with this TTC stuff.. I was 2 weeks late this month and so hopeful. Been TTC for 6 months now and miscarried once. Anyone else in the same boat? I need to hear some good success stories!!

Overall Relate Rating: 6 Ratings

Posted by: BrennDV on Jun 27, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

Conception Frustrations, when r we and they gonna get it?

I am 28 and my hubby and I TTC. So far we r seeing positive possibles but nothing wrote in stone yet. Yes I feel like Addison on Greys and yes his mom was getting pretty bad about asking "when" Honestly dont they think if we knew when we would tell them, I mean duh!!!

Overall Relate Rating: 3 Ratings

Posted by: LMC on Jun 26, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

Frustrated. . . that's an understatement!!

I'm way beyond TTC frustration. I never thought it would take so long TTC #2. My DH & I have been married over 5 years and have a beautiful 3 1/2 year old daughter. In January 06, we decided it was time to add to our family. So we started trying that March. Which brings us to the present. We've gotten out hopes up for 16 months only to be let down each time. Not even a maybe. We had several tests done in May. Fortunately, everything checked out OK. Now I'm awaiting results to a progestrone test. Hope they're ok too. I'm thankful that all the tests have been good but at the same time I wish there was a reason behind the failures. Dr. said keep trying naturally til Nov and if nothing by then, we'll be sent to a RE. I've done the OPK, BBT's, saliva test kits and anything else I can think of to increase our chances. I've gotten to the point where I'm so tired of trying. It sucks to get my hopes up every month thinking 'this may be it' only to have a visit from Aunt Flo. Then to have everyone ask "so when are you gonna have another one?" And I know family and friends mean well when they say things like "be patient", "it'll happen", "stop trying so hard". Frankly I'm sick of hearing it.

And why does it seem like everyone around me has had no trouble conceiving? My sister-in-law is pregnant with her 3rd (two conceived during 1st month of trying); a cousin pregnant w/ her 3rd; a cousin pregnant w/ her 1st (conceived during 1st month); and several friends due before the end of the year. UGH!!! I'm happy for them but at the same time sad that its not me. I try to be interested and excited about their pregnancies but really I just want to crawl into a hole.

Everytime I see my daughter's smiling face I know its all worth it. And so I'll keep trying and praying for a precious new baby. Blessings and baby dust to all of you going through this too. Thanks for letting my vent.

Overall Relate Rating: 9 Ratings

Posted by: Mommynina on Jun 26, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

stress out

Hi i am mommynina my husband and I all ready have two kids,but we are
trying for another and it seems as though everyone is pregnant but us. we have been trying for so long and i get upset that it has not happened,yet my husband keeps saying don't worry but how can i not worry. I feel like maybe its me or like it may never happen again or I say to myself be happy with just the two you have,and don't get me wrong i love those two little people more than life it self but .we want a big family because me and my husband are only children.so we felt like two was not enough we really want four kid, but it is taking so long and seems like we may never get there. sometimes i want to give up when another month goes by and i get my peorid i just want to cry .

Overall Relate Rating: 3 Ratings

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