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Conception Frustrations II?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: Neko on Apr 23, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

Just Not in The mood?

My hubby and I have good relation ship but lately I am just not in the mood. I love him and we do want a baby but I just can't get in the mood. Is there any kind of food or something that can make me wanna get busy? I mean you kind have to work to get the result so to speak. So anyone have suggetions?

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Posted by: Dolores on Apr 20, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

Very Frustrated!!!

I am 35 and in Sept. I turn 36. My partner and I have been actively TTC since May '09. I had an HSG 2/10 and found out I had blocked tubes. That was so devastating but I was relieved that we found out so that we could fix the problem and move on. I had a laparoscopy 3/10 and my OB was able to unblock my right tube. She explained to me that I was able to get pregnant even though I had only one tube functioning, it was just gonna take us longer than usual. She gave me a return appt for 6 months. My thing is my age. I am so scared to wait that long because I know it is much more difficult to conceive after 35. I went to a healer (curandera in spanish)last week and she gave me a fertility massage and an herbal tea to drink until I conceive. She explained to me that it will help unblock my tube and also help with TTC faster. Only time will tell if this works. So my question for you ladies is do you think I should go see a fertility specialist and get a 2nd opinion or just wait the 6 mos. to see my OB? Baby dust to all TTC!!

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Posted by: gottabe on Apr 2, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

TTC 3 motnhs

TTC month three. Cycle 28 days, OPK + March 27 and 28th, BD 26, 27, 28, 29, 30th. CD 18, 5 dpo. Waiting!!! hate it, every little thing i feel I notice, but then i know that i'm propably making it up!!! Expect AF on the 12th. Humm.. the waiting really does feel like forever. Anyone else in the same boat??? I just feel like I will never be able to have a baby. i know it takes times, but im just worried???

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Posted by: hopeful22 on Mar 31, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

Frustrated and sad.

I know exactly how you feel. My husband and I are only two months in, but my body just doens't seem to ovulate. I take OPK and they come out positive then my temp never rises. It is very frustrating.

To make matters worse my younger sister just announced she was preggo. I want to be happy for her, but a part of is just so insanly jealous.... Why not me... She's not even married.. These nasty thoughts always enter my mind.. It's just my jeolousy talking.

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Posted by: WishinandHopin on Mar 25, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

Trying to Stay Postive

The hubby and I are now TTC and its only been two months so far but its been a very long wait to get to that point. I have very patiently waited for years to start TTC while most friends and co workers around had babies, now everyone is cooking or just had thier second.

We have 6 preggo's at work right now, mutiple friends and now just found out my SIL is. They just had an oops. I've held up really well emotionally, but when I found out about her I broke down. I kept telling myself that everyone else was just having thier's now so we would have our time when it came. But now I just hate the feeling of jealousy I get every time its mentioned. (sorry about the vent)

Now i'm trying to stay postive and non-stressed but I feel like I'm going crazy. What do you do when your whole month consists of waiting for OV? I just don't know what to do with myself.

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Posted by: teebs123 on Mar 23, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

concecption frustrations

Hi there, I am new to this site, I have been trying for 9 months now this month i really thought I might have got a BFP but AF turned up 36 days into my cycle, its starting to make me feel quite low, I have had the 21 day blood tests and a scan and apaprently everything is fine so I dont know what else to do really apart from keep trying - I havent shared my concerns with my partner he sees things very black and white and sees it as it will happen when it does and to stop worrying easier said than done when you are getting older (30 the end of this year)it seems everyone around me is pregnant or having babies - my friend fell pregnant within a couple of days coming off the pill! my other friend it took her 18 months.

I can see on here people have been trying for quite a long time - does anyone have any advice - my cycle changes every month it can go from 28 days to like this month 36 days so I never know when I am most fertile!?!?

We havent told anyone we are trying apart from my mum so its hard I dont have anyone to talk to about my frustrations!

thanks and wich luck to everyone trying!! :-)

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