Conception Frustrations II?

Having read a few views i though i would share my experience so people can see there is always someone worse off!! i have been trying for over 3 yrs. i went via the local NHS for various checks including tube viability op. i actually fell pregnant unbeknown to me and was around 8-10 weeks when the bleeding started and lasted for 8 wks- a miscarriage. i went to a follow up appointment at the fertility clinic and told them about the miscarriage and was told 'well you aren't infertile so we won't need to see you again'. i am now 40 and still not pregnant. add to that my husband has a contract of work where he is away every other month halving our chances. i am trying not to get obsessed but my body clock is ticking away. in the time i have been trying my brother's wife has had 2 kids - just to rub salt in the wound!

Hi, i am new to this site and i hope everyone doesn'nt mind me 'going on' a bit. Thing is no-one understands what i am going thro at the mo and everyone keeps saying 'relax' and 'stop obsessing so much about being pregnant' and 'at least you have 1 son, be happy with him' they havent a clue! all i want is a brother or sister for him!
I suffered an ectopic pregnancy in dec which resulted in me losing a tube, and then got pregnant straight away which ended in miscarriage unfort. I was so happy to be pregnant only to have it taken away again. Anyway have been trying for 7 months now and every month i get heart broken when i see that negative result ;-( will keep trying tho, its just so hard. Thanks all for listening and baby dust to all of u xx

I'm here with you girls...We've been trying for almost 11 months now, I went off the pill in late November. I know that isn't as long as some ladies have been trying, but for us, it feels like forever as I got pregnant with our first daughter in only 3-4 months and I wasn't even charting...probably didn't even know when I was ovulating back then! She will be 6 Monday, and I have had the baby bug for the past 2 years. We never imagined it would take so long, or we probably have started trying earlier. I am 26 and hubbys is 25, so we have some child bearing years ahead of us still (as everyone keeps pointing out), But I really want to be done by 27. So this is my last year in my mind...I will turn 27 next August, so that give us another 10 months...

My cycles are regular now, exactly 26 days...and have been for the past 3 months after some serious fluctuating before then. I took two months of Provera to regulate my cycles in May and June. Next doctor's appointment, we will be talking about trying Clomid. I hope Mother Nature works her magic for us this cycle before having to try more medications. I should be ovulating on my daughter's birthday, so maybe a little gift for us a younger brother or sister?? FX, LOBD to all of us trying :-)

My man and I are trying for a baby. He's so excited about it he's told everyone what we're planning. Now not only am I worried that we're not getting it done right away, everyone is there to rub it in. I want it so badly but I have no answers. My period is mocking me by being late on purpose but every test comes back negative...I don't want to loose hope but I'm getting worn down.

This is my 4th month of TTC I have had some symptoms like nausea extremely emotional backache and most recent fatigue.....I guess I thought it would be easy because it only took me 4 months the first time.......according to my charts I'm not supposed to get my AF til 10\1 however did take a clear blue early detection HPT this morning and got a big fat negative...I want to cry! The waiting game is horrible...I'm not going to take another test until I'm actually late. Its just becoming so hard because I feel like there are babies and pregnant bellies every where !! I'm just gonna keep trying!!

I just got my period last night and have just had a bawl fest :( I got off BCP in March 2010, got my period 25th March, then waited close to two months later for my next period: 1st May 2010. Then waited again and got my period on 28th July. And got it again today 13th Sept. I am seriously going crazy and getting so depressed. My husband travels a lot for work, sometimes 5 days in a row, sometimes 2 weeks, and next month he will be away for three whole weeks. I am harbouring resentment towards him as I feel that his work is to blame, and if we could BD on a constant basis, we could get lucky. But when he's home, he insists we BD ALL the time, which I've insisted will not help if he's away so much. He says that we never know and that something is better than nothing.

I got some bloodwork done to see if I'm healthy, and so far, I'm ok. It's not a fertility test tho, so I dont know details. Judging by my period dates, don't you think my periods are out of wack? To make matters worse, I live in Italy, where hardly anyone speaks English, and the medicaly system is SUCH a headache you won't believe it.

I am SO UPSET today, and I'm all alone at home, hubs travelling again. Though you may say that we havent been trying for very long, I feel like it has been AGES, especially since my best friend got preggers immediately after her wedding, and friends and family around me are popping babies like nobody's business. I go on Facebook to get off things abit, and what do I see, MORE BABY pictures everywhere. And then EVERYONES asking and hinting to us, I'm getting so pissed.

Am having period cramps now, and it's not helping, looks I'll just continue bawling. :( :(